✨ VICTIMISATION. A serious matter.
Like mentioned earlier, the victim doesn't like to aclnowledge the fact that they are getting into victimhood, let alone accept it. And therefore, they aren't able to perceive the harm it inflicts upon them and others around. While we may not be able to look through the sadness and the behaviour of the victim, it causes them much more harm than we could possibly imagine. It is, in one word SELF SABOTAGING.
These are 5 major things that the victim is inviting in their life by being in that energy more than required.
1. MENTAL HEALTH
First and foremost, the mental health of the victim is affected to a great extent. Choosing to stay in that energy kills the capacity to genuinely see and feel happiness in a person. They block all joys of life and turn gloomy. This, according to me, is the first step to self sabotage. Until a person chooses to, no one and I mean, no one, on this planet can help them. Coming out of it, learning from it and healing self, is primarily a chioce. Only when this choice is made, can other people or modalities effect them. Think. Can anyone make you happy until YOU decide to smile? That's what I mean. That choice is totally neglected by the victim. Their choice is always the past/hurt/pain.
2. THEY BECOME WEAK EMOTIONALLY.
Obvious this one, isn't it? Emotionally, the victim is always at their weakest. This is because, in reality, they do not want to breakdown emotionally. The victim is petrified to look into the depths of their emotional state. For the fear of experiencing the pain again. In order to escape from the hurt, they lock their emotions up and do not allow their emotions to flow and get released from their mind, body and energy. Holding on to those experiences and emotions deep down, the victim is just reinforcing tbeir beliefs in hurt and pain, and subconsciously, they attract more and more of it.
3. PHYSICAL DAMAGE.
All the physical dis-eases and ailments in the body have an emotional root cause. Until and unless that emotional cause is cleared the effects of it keep showing up in the physical body in some form or the other. The victim doesn't realize that they are inviting health troubles. Because they aren't ready to accept the deeply rooted enotional pain, let alone heal and release it. Depending on what the emotional state is, the victim, in the long run attracts health issues. For example, holding on to resentment and past hurt is the root of all cancers. And that is not some thing people experience every day. It is a result of years and years of holding on to hurt and pain. The victim who feels they aren't supported may attract back and lower back problems. Over time, the energy of victimhood does take a toll on the physical body.
4. THEY ABSORB ANY UNWANTED EBERGY QUICKLY.
With a devastated state, mentally and emotionally, the aure of the victim is neither whole nor healed. There may be cracks and leaks in their electro magnetic field. Which drains them quickly and also allow for any unwanted energy to quickly slip into them. Thus, they become susceptible to infections and psychic attacks more often than anyone can imagine. And as they say, like attracts like, they end up in situations which make them feel the same, time and time again.
5. A STATE OF DEPRESSION.
This, probably is the final stage a victim could get to. It's important to understand that feeling victimized and feeling depressed are two different things. There is still hope and better scope for healing at the stage of victimhood as compared to getting someone out of depression. When the victim reaches a point in their mind that talking about their problems or even looking at them is of no use becuase this is what they wilk feel over and over again, they subconsciously accept this state as their reality and carry on with their lives, they have reached a state of depression. They lose all hope and accept it as theie fate and do nothing about it. And once there, it can be a task to help them come out of it. Becuase, they don't choose to do anything about it.
However drastic it might get, whatever condition a person might be in, there is always a ray of hope to turn things around. What can be done to come out of this state or help someone do so? Coming up in the next write up. Stay tuned. Aho! 💚💚💚
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